My Big Brother (Bill)y,
Losing my Brother was the Hardest loss of my Life.
I am so grateful that I had him for 80 years.
Just prior to his being diagnosed with ALS, I was able to spend some quality one on one time with him. We talked about many things, our Childhood, our children, and our Deep Love for each other.
No one but he and I know the stories of our Childhood. I thanked him for always being there for me. We shed some tears of Sadness but mostly Joy for having the close Relationship we had. I reminded him of the amazing legacy he would leave behind, a Wonderful Son and Daughter in law, and two beautiful Grandchildren. I told him that through them he would live on.
I will try to share just a few of the stories he and I shared.
He told me a story that when I was born, he carried me around whenever he could. I heard that story my whole life from our Mom and Dad. I apparently had Eczema as a baby and would wake up each morning with my cheek stuck to the pillow case. Billy told me that he would bath my cheek with warm water to ease my pain and to ease my cheek from the pillowcase. Then he would rock me until I stopped crying.
He said that he & our sister Dolly were always stuck taking me to the Saturday morning Cowboy Movies. Here I thought they loved having me along?
When I was three or Four I was determined to stay up and see Santa Clause. I was told that Santa would not come or leave presents if I was not sleeping, but I was not giving in. Billy went down stairs and rang bells very loudly, I was in bed and sleeping so fast. I was told yrs. later who rang those bells.
When he was only working part time he saved his money to buy me two dolls, a “Campbell Soup Cupie doll” and a “Shirley Temple doll” Oh, how I loved those dolls, unfortunately my Mother gave them away when I left home..
When I started school, Billy always had a few pennies to give me for penny candy on my way to school so I could be like my friends.
We had very little money, so he would get me books from the Library and he and Dolly would take turns reading to me at Bedtime. They made me feel loved and protected me through some difficult times..
When he was in High school, he and his girlfriend bought me second hand roller skates and screwed them to my “running shoes”. I spent many hrs. skating up and down Albert Street even though my feet were killing me.
I was going to a dance In High school and wrote and told Billy that I had nothing to wear, can you believe he sent me money to buy a White Cashmere cardigan that I desperately wanted, it probably took two month’s salary. My friend’s were so jealous.
He mentored me academically & helped me through my perceived difficulties with girlfriends & boyfriends. He always told me, “work hard in school so you can get a good job”.
Billy graduated from High school when he was 16 yrs. old. He wanted so badly to go to University but there was no money to send him. He went to “Normal” or Teacher’s College, graduating first in his class at 17, then he left to teach in a one room schoolhouse, I missed him so much, but he wrote me long letters which I eagerly waited for.
I remember so well the day that my Dad and I took him to Carievale, where he was to become the Principal of their high school, I was 9 yrs. old and small for my age. He was going to be living at the Town Hotel. He and my Dad laughed while I dragged his heavy suitcase up a steep flight of stairs. That is where he met Mabel whose parents owned that hotel. I was a little jealous of Mabel, but she always treated me very well and I learned to love her to.
Billy was always there to offer advise about school, wipe my tears after a heartbreak or help me sort out a problem with a friend.
We spent many hours over the years with Billy, Mabel and Scott (his Pride and Joy.) My husband Grant and our kid’s loved them as much as I did.
BILLY- “You were my brother and my best friend.
I will always love you no matter how long its been”.
Ileen.