In Celebration of

Allen "Al" Cook

July 20, 1940 -  June 29, 2018

Al Cook lived a full and rewarding life, doing good work and making close friends across three continents. He was a warm, wonderful person who loved people, jazz, literature, and most of all family.

Al was born on July 20, 1940 in Pietermaritzburg, South Africa and worked as a journalist in Grahamstown, South Africa. He was a critic of the apartheid regime and was committed to social justice and equality in everything he did. He worked for the International Defense and Aid Fund for Southern Africa (IDAF), an international organization that had been banned in South Africa, devoted to providing legal defence for political prisoners, supporting their families, and advocating for change. He worked as deputy director, which included being in charge of international partners. Through this work he met, Paula Kingston, who was involved in the organization in Canada, and who became his beloved partner, spouse, and best friend.

He subsequently became Executive Director of Canada-South Africa Cooperation, which continued to channel Canadian support to South African under Nelson Mandela.

For many years he managed an international legal human rights programme for young lawyers at the Canadian Bar Association in Ottawa. He particularly enjoyed working with a new generation of bright young people committed to human rights.

He is the eldest of four siblings, Colleen (deceased), Jasper (Cape Town), and Irene/Zim (Pietermaritzburg). He was devoted to his four children – Illinois Jacquet Cook (Amelia), Colchester, England; Nelson Mandela Cook (Samar Omar), London, England; Sadie Cook Griffith (Ben Griffith), London England; and Ben Kingston-Cook (Mexico City), and his five fantastic grandchildren (Louis, Clementine, Clara , Albion and Lawrence) as well as many many nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends across Canada, the UK and South Africa.

He died on the morning of June 29 at the May Court Hospice in Ottawa, after maintaining amazingly good spirits for the past five years, when he was dealing with advanced cancer.

His wish is that any donations be made to May Court Hospice. He very much appreciated the wonderful people and compassionate care they provide.

He was a remarkably friendly person who cared deeply for others and was a joy to be around. He will be terribly missed.

A Celebration of Al’s Life will be held at Beechwood, Funeral, Cemetery and Cremation Services, 280 Beechwood Avenue, Ottawa, on Saturday, July 14 at 10:30 a.m.


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Stephanie Kingston (Niece)

Entered July 2, 2018 from Louisville, KY

I don’t have enough descriptive words to express what an awesome guy my Uncle Al was. He was easily the kindest, gentlest, sweetest, most humble man I have ever known. He brought great joy to my life, and I’m going to especially miss his laugh. The world is a sadder place without Al in it. All my love to my Aunt Paula, and cousins Ben, Sadie, Nelson, and Illinois.

Sam Kingston (Nephew)

Entered July 3, 2018 from Guangzhou, China

I'll miss you Al. You're the best. Warm hearted, and an amazing story teller. You will be sorely missed.

Hana Hruska (Paula's colleague & friend)

Entered July 3, 2018 from Ottawa, Ontario

So sorry to hear about Al's passing. My heart goes out to Paula and the family.

Aja and Tony Hruska (friends)

Entered July 3, 2018 from Ottawa

WE met Al few times but we always had a very interesting discussion with him. He was very pleasant, very warm person. Paula and Ben please accept our deepest sympathy.
Aja and Tony Hruska

Janet (friend/co worker)

Entered July 3, 2018 from Ottawa

My sincere condolences and prayers to Al's family.
He was a pleasure to speak too and a good friend.
RIP Al

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